He proved his identity and they ended up hooking up. Most posts by men under M4W go ignored or are only answered by the previously mentioned hookers and webcam girls, and sometimes the occasional horribly unfortunate-looking real woman looking for a casual good time. One of the women said she would go to Casual Encounters when she was looking for a very specific sexual experience — something you can't always count on from a one night stand that starts at a club or bar. Violet can mean marijuana. In yet another, I explicitly detailed sexual activities and used very aggressive language. Or at least, they said they were women.